Ladies! Ladies! Ladies!

Its so crazy to me that what people say and how they portray us has such an impact on our lifestyle. Its the reason we dress, talk, walk, eat, and even act the way we do. Women take hours getting dressed. Trying on one thing after another in our closet, waiting for something to look "right". We go on diets when people think we're too fat, we get mad if we're portrayed as "too skinny", ( never gotten that one.. just saying). The make up we wear, the way we do our hair, the shoes that we can or can't walk in, all this to fit into society.

When women go out at night to a bar or club, we wear our sexiest dresses, and the hottest (aka most uncomfortable) shoes we own . We work extra long on our hair and make up and for what... To always look better then the woman standing next to us. See men have it mistaken.. Women don't dress up for MEN, women dress up for other WOMEN. Men will most likely compliment you on whatever your wearing. All they care about is your big ta tas and your juicy booty. Half the time, they cant even tell you what color dress you are wearing not to mention what brand of shoes you have on. Women dress for other women. 

Next to being caring, considerate, loving and nurturing, also, women can be the meanest, most jealous, gossiping, most judgmental, creatures to other women. How many times have you heard or have said the words yourself, "What is she wearing?!" Women are so quick to judge and gossip and make others feel bad for their own entertainment and self confidence. Its terrible. Yet, knowing this, we still believe and take anything "our girls" say, to heart. 

I just think us women should stick to our gut more and not allow society mold us into how we should be. Life is tough enough, give each other a break. And most importantly don't believe everything anyone tells you, have confidence in yourself. 

"The Eyes Believe Themselves, But The Ears Believe Other People"